Last Toast on the Coast

The Ultimate Seaside Bachelorette Party Guide

Planning the perfect coastal bachelorette party? Last Toast on the Coast is the dreamy, chic and stylish bachelorette theme —perfect for brides who love the sea, sun, and a little sparkle.

From location to decor this guide will help you plan out a fun, carefree mini-vacation for your celebration get-away!

Read all the way to find a bonus section for a few signature cocktail suggestions!

Venue Ideas for the Perfect Weekend Getaway with the Girls

We love when a destination fully embraces a theme, and Last Toast on the Coast is the perfect fit for a charming seaside town. Picture a quaint coastal New England setting—whether it’s the nautical charm of Newport, RI, the timeless beauty of Cape Cod, or the classic allure of Kennebunkport, Maine. The Hamptons also offers stunning beachfront estates, stylish restaurants, and the perfect blend of relaxation and celebration.

For accommodations, consider a well-appointed Airbnb or VRBO with enough space for the group and a gathering area right on the beach—ideal for toasting the bride at sunset. If New England or the Hamptons feel too far, don’t overlook your local waterfront gems! Lakeside retreats can offer the same breezy charm with a more accessible travel plan. I’m fortunate to be right on the edge of the Finger Lakes, a destination in its own right and a fantastic alternative for a chic, close-to-home celebration. This resort is a relatively newer addition but a fast favorite! Whether ocean or lake, it’s all about capturing the relaxed sophistication of a coastal-inspired getaway.

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The Schedule of Events

Pro Tip: Create a thoughtful itinerary so guests know what to pack and can anticipate the fun ahead. Balance is key—mixing moments of relaxation with dressier events ensures everyone feels refreshed and ready to celebrate. Allow time for outfit changes between casual beach days and elevated evening plans, and don’t underestimate the value of quiet downtime. Those slow, sun-soaked mornings are just as important as the lively late-night dance parties when you have an entire weekend together. Thoughtful pacing makes for a seamless, enjoyable experience for everyone.

How to Create a Thoughtful Welcome Display for a Bachelorette Weekend

Setting the tone for a memorable bachelorette weekend starts the moment guests arrive. While everyone may know the bride, a well-planned welcome display creates a relaxed, inviting atmosphere and helps friends from different parts of her life connect.

While not essential, a small welcome gift is a thoughtful way to show appreciation for those who traveled to celebrate. It doesn’t have to be extravagant—a few carefully chosen items tucked into a stylish beach bag can make all the difference. Consider essentials that tie into the weekend’s theme, like a soft beach towel, chic sunglasses, sea shell earrings to dress up an outfit, and a trendy claw clip for effortless beachy waves. These little touches make guests feel included and set the stage for an unforgettable weekend together.

How to Host the Perfect Welcome Beachside Bonfire for a Bachelorette Weekend

A beachside bonfire is the perfect way to ease into the weekend—casual, cozy, and effortlessly fun. The first night should be about unwinding and letting everyone connect, so keep it simple with takeout from a local favorite and a fun summer playlist like this one. Set the scene with blankets, lanterns, and comfortable seating for a relaxed, welcoming atmosphere.

No bonfire is complete without s’mores. Set up a DIY station with classic ingredients and fun extras like peanut butter cups or gourmet marshmallows. As the night winds down, encourage guests to share favorite memories with the bride-to-be, creating an intimate and memorable start to the celebration.

Beachside Bliss: A Relaxed Start to Saturday

Saturday morning is all about soaking up the destination and easing into the day at a leisurely pace. Start with a relaxed breakfast bar featuring fresh fruit, pastries, and iced lattes, giving everyone a chance to wake up at their own speed. Then, head to the beach—whether it’s lounging with a good book, taking a morning swim, or enjoying a creative activity like a DIY shell bracelet station, it’s the perfect way to recharge before the afternoon’s adventures.

Elegant Coastal Dining: A Chic Seafood Feast

A beautifully curated seafood dinner is the perfect way to elevate Saturday night. While hiring a private chef is always a treat, seafood is surprisingly simple to prepare if someone in the group is comfortable in the kitchen. Pick up fresh local lobster and oysters, pair them with a light summer salad, and set a breezy yet elegant tablescape with candles, linen napkins, and coastal-inspired accents- and you know I pulled some of my favorites onto my Amazon list including stylized cocktail napkins!

To make the evening feel extra special, set a Beach Resort Chic dress code—think effortless linen, soft pastels, and breezy silhouettes. Surprise the bride with a special glass for her toast, like the stunning seashell-inspired one from my Amazon list. It’s all about creating a moment that feels elevated yet relaxed, perfect for celebrating in style.

A Sunday Farewell Brunch: A Relaxed Send-Off

After a leisurely wake-up, set the tone for a calm morning with soft café tunes and a laid-back vibe. A bagel bar with all the fixings—smoked salmon, cream cheese, and fresh toppings—paired with iced lattes will have everyone fueled up before they say their goodbyes. Keep it slow and steady, giving everyone time to savor the last moments of the weekend and reflect on the memories made. It’s the perfect, relaxed end to an unforgettable celebration.

Signature Cocktails

As promised! A few signature cocktail ideas to get your bar started!

To bring your Last Toast on the Coast weekend to life, be sure to check out our curated shopping list on Amazon for all the essentials—from beachside accessories to the perfect coastal dining touches. Whether you’re planning a dreamy destination celebration or a chic, local getaway, these thoughtful details will elevate the experience. Ready to start planning? Send this blog and the shopping list to your MOH or designated bachelorette planner, and get ready for an unforgettable weekend of sun, sea, and celebration!

xo, Elizabeth S. Moore
The Architects’ Daughter

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